Today I would like to chat a bit about a book I recently read called "The Lesbian Love Companion" by Marny Hall (PhD).
I have so many feelings about this book! It's not often that I say a book changed my life, but this one definitely has. There are no words to explain it, it's like someone smacked me in the face with the giant stick of enlightenment. This book has undeniably CHANGED MY LIFE.
As a result of reading this quirky, hilarious, painfully truthful book, everything has changed. The way I view my relationships with other women has changed, the way I view my relationship with myself has changed, even the way I think about relationships in general has changed.
This book came out in 1998, so you could be forgiven for thinking that it would be a little outdated. The thing is though, it's still one hundred per cent relevant and true in 2017. That speaks volumes to the power of Marny's writing and perspectives.
Here is one of my favourite quotes:
"I was really lucky that Erin had found someone new. Otherwise, I might still be turning myself into a pretzel to please her."
The way that Marny describes lesbian relationship dynamics is hilarious yet complex, incredibly insightful and thoughtful but still easy to read. I devoured this book in only a couple of sittings. I couldn't get enough. And with every page I turned, the more "Aha!" moments I found myself having. When I was finished, I found myself longing for more. 'Where is the rest?' I was wondering. I simply crave more content from this incredible writer.
EVERY queer girl should read this book. 10/10 recommended, 5/5 stars (or rainbows?).
Until next time, happy reading!
Rhi xo
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